The solution I came up to is this. Turns out there's a whole market of Sioux and B&D knock offs coming from India. The obvious problems with those are quality and shipping. But I came across a set on amazon, which made it less risky. The set contains the Sioux style stone holder, two popular pilots, 5/16 and 11/32, and a bunch of standard size stones up to 2". All for $80 including shipping.
Measured the pilots and they're right on, seems like good quality. Same with the stone holder. The stones are probably not very good, we'll see how much they wobble.
But a pilot for the big backhoe engine is not a popular size. It's 13/32+0.001
The one in the middle
Fits well
But I'm missing one essential piece of equipment. The stone dresser.
